If a wife feel neglected or feel squandered by her husband, he will become brittle and easily ran into infidelity, either emotionally or physically, a man who makes her feel special and desirable. Consequently, the wife will find ways to reduce stress and guilt by way of an affair, her husband would leave her anyway. When a feeling that she and her husband no longer has an interest, he would find himself into an emotional affair with a man who has an interest.